Little Girl Needs A Job…And A Clue

26 Feb

Please watch the video below of an adorable 5-year old girl. Then listen to me rant about why her parents need to be smacked.

“I don’t want to marry someone if I don’t have a job first.” Appropriate expression of a proud, independent young mind, or bizarre rejection of the most basic instinctive desires of a normal little girl?

I say the latter. Little girls are supposed to want to play house and dream of husbands and babies. This desire in young women is a driving force behind the survival of our species. If girls didn’t want to get married and have kids, how the hell would any of us have been born?

Now, if at a more mature age–say, 16 or 18 or 25–a young woman decides she has personal passions that she wants to fulfill beyond the initial goal of wedlock and reproduction, that’s fine by me. In fact, I have stated many times that the woeful under-utilization of women in society is one of the biggest fuck-ups of the past six thousand years. But for Christ’s sake, don’t make a woman choose between a job and a marriage! This is a bastardization of everything feminism should stand for! Hell, don’t make guys choose either! Young people should be free to find love and purposeful careers. Not that any of us actually find purposeful careers, even when we look. And this girl is saying she refuses to get married before she has a job? Gah!

Here’s why this is so creepy to me. This girl is young and impressionable. Things she learns at age five will stick. This might be cute right now…but imagine her at 35, sitting alone at a bar, drunkenly saying all this same stuff to anybody who will listen to her. Believe me, I have bought many a glass of chardonnay for these gals. At 35, it’s not cute anymore, it’s just bitter. I don’t know what female role model she’s parroting here…her mom? Some kooky aunt? Jennifer Aniston? But it represents an indirect effort to deprogram something that was ingrained in all our brains by millions of years of successful ancestors, who had a desire first and foremost for survival, pair bonding, and reproduction. Can you imagine this girl meeting the man of her dreams when she’s eighteen years old, and kicking him to the curb to pursue…what, her real estate license? An undergraduate degree in psychology? Blech! Do people even learn practical career skills in college anymore? I didn’t. I learned how to get wasted and sleep with strangers and projectile vomit. And I went to a good school! Then when I graduated, the only jobs available all sucked! In fact, pretty much everyone’s jobs still suck! What the hell does this girl want a job for, anyway?! Ridiculous.

In closing:

Dear Cute Little Girl,

You seem very smart and nice and pretty. If I might make a suggestion, when you turn eighteen, find the most handsome, caring, successful 30-year old guy you can, and marry him. He’ll be completely stoked to have found such a delightful woman who wants to marry him, and I’m sure he will support you if you want to become a doctor, or astronaut, or dental assistant, or whatever. Just as you will support him in his career aspirations. But it’s okay to get married and then find a job. When you get older, you will realize that jobs are something people generally hate, and you will not quite understand what the hell you wanted one so bad for when you were five. When this happens, and you realize you can have your cake AND eat it too, you can thank me by introducing me to some of your friends…I will be 43 and looking for a third wife by then.


Blunt Monkey

Am I wrong? Comment below.

4 Responses to “Little Girl Needs A Job…And A Clue”

  1. Anonymous May 29, 2011 at 8:14 am #

    its is not good

  2. ~*~ April 21, 2012 at 8:07 pm #

    ….funny you should say that,

  3. Anonymous August 2, 2013 at 3:05 am #

    You have a point, but men want women who have jobs too– even just part-time, women who are grown-up enough to take care of their selves, or do something aside from just having a relationship. Even men with money want women who can make their own money. And we women need our own budget to beautify ourselves & afford going out and have a social life so we can meet guys. Most of all, after raising us, our parents get tired and want to retire.

  4. Ashley November 23, 2016 at 10:24 pm #

    Sad to see your comment that people generally “hate” their jobs. I’m a woman who loves doing what I do and I even started my own business this year. I know other women who feel the same way I do. But I suppose we’re the lucky ones. Regardless, I don’t think five year-olds should be told to grow up and do anything other than pursue what makes them happy. For some, that’s marriage. For others, work. But there’s many other options and categories of achievements aside from those two buckets. Maybe the little tyke will make art that changes how people think, or will visit all 50 states and all seven continents, or will learn five languages, or will beat a random world record, or will have consensual sex with more than 1,000 different people. The world is wide, and the possibilities are endless. Let’s not constrain kids to just “find a spouse and/or a job.”

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: